I provided some instructions about looking at the photo proofs from the wedding stating these were not the ones to download because they weren't really mine to download. She says that I was really saying her family is full of “cheaters”, a term I never used nor implied. I was just trying to explain these were not mine to give away. Then she accused me of stealing. I put up the proofs by working around the program on the proof cd so everyone else could order photos at HER request. Now she is calling me a thief; so now my entire photobucket account has become private. I am done with her. I have never accused anyone of cheating (unless it was like Monopoly with my brothers when I was ten, which I don't remember), and to call me a thief for providing those? Or paying to obtain digital copies, which the photographer has already agreed to?? No, I am not being stereotypical here, she just plain thinks I am evil.
At this point I don't know how to respond. I want her family to know I never accused them of cheating, that my life isn't as easy as she is making it out to be, and that I am not nearly the snot she is calling me. 🙁 No wonder I have been having self esteem issues lately. The past four months I have been badgered by Hoyt's mom and under so much other stress. I think the only thing I can do at this point is stop communicating with her. I defend myself and it just gives more kindle to fuel the fire. I think I need to start meditating or something, I feel like such a horrible person. 🙁